27, 🇵🇸 Palestinian, Opolskie, Poland
Muscular Prays 5x daily Sunni
On my way to becoming a Hafidh. Fully ready to get married. Deeply religious and practicing.
I am half Palestinian, half Polish. War in Gaza prevents me from finding a wife there, so I have to search online as I don't want to delay my marriage for longer.
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
1. In short about you:
You speak Arabic Fusha fluently, are a traditional stay-at-home wife, calm, warm and affectionate person, obedient and ready to be led by your man. You were never married, waited and guarded yourself from haram just like I did alhamdulillah. You are not materialistic and appreciate a simple life (I won't be stingy though).
2. About my Deen:
I am a very practicing Muslim. Apart from the obvious basics of Islam, I am memorising Quran daily (I have memorised 20 Juz already) with correct Tajweed. I recite in both Hafs and Warsh. I pray various Sunnah prayers; I do regular Ruqyah and different Adhkaar. I also do other good deeds that I won't make public; I will tell you once we get to know each other. I keep my beard growing and all of my trousers are above the ankle. I don't listen to music. I don't eat while standing. I keep learning about new Sunnahs and I love learning about Islam – it's the main part of my life and all decisions are based on it. For example, I won't leave the house if I know I would miss a prayer or I won't accept a Haram job – I would prefer to be poor. I could write more, but let's keep it relatively short: in sha Allah you won't be disappointed with my Islamic practice and may Allah accept our good deeds and keep our hearts empty of pride and arrogance.
On this note, I wish to add that my methodology is simple: I follow Quran and authentic Hadiths upon the correct understanding of scholars (the best of whom were early generations) and I follow anyone that presents an authentic proof. I respect all major schools of thought (Madhaahib) and various scholars accepting that none was perfect, though personally I am mostly close to Hanbali Madhab. I expect you to have a mature understanding of Islam: I do not want a SPUBS ultra-sectarian harsh and arrogant wife.
Fun fact: A few years ago I went for an international Quran competition in Hamburg and scored 3rd place in the 10 Juz category.
3. About my Dunya:
I have a Halal remote job as a Senior Programmer. I am also highly educated: I am pursuing a PhD and I have a master's degree in Computer Engineering. I have many skills and hobbies and I love learning about technical topics, biology and animals, geopolitics and about life in general – learning is a sure part of my day. In every field I delve into, I discover more about this world and the Might of Allah and I only want to learn more.
I never smoked, drank, etc. I don't have any debts, no Riba loans, etc. Allah kept me clean alhamdulillah. All of my friends are brothers from the Masjid I go to.
I have a fit/bear body type. I am a bigger and more muscular guy (not huge though). Many brothers compliment it. I live a healthy lifestyle; I diet and exercise most of the year, though sometimes I let go – usually during winter. I do rock climbing, calisthenics and gym.
4. About my personality:
I am a highly rational and logical person; I calculate every move. I am extremely patient, very calm and confident. I am kind and very affectionate, though I am also assertive and I expect you to follow me in life decisions. I hardly ever get angry except for Deen or oppression. I am mature in life, but I like silly jokes as a balance. I take care of my hygiene. I am an introvert, but I can switch to an extrovert when needed. As a man, I follow a simple rule: "I do what I need to do" (not what I feel like doing) – you will see it implemented in our life. I love long walks in nature in the sun during spring and summer.
Because it's really hard to know someone over the internet – once we connect and want to proceed, I will provide you with details of the Imam of the capital city in Poland, and you can also visit the Masjid I go to. They will all testify to my character and Islamic practice over many years as proof for you to know who I am.
5. About you:
Read the introduction above first if you haven't: things mentioned there are the most important.
My preferred age range is 18-23, but I am open to other ages as well, so don't let it stop you from contacting me. I will provide for you while you take care of the home, and together we will take care of our children. Even though I don't expect you to work (especially not full-time), if you really insist, we can discuss it. I also expect you to be dedicated and supportive – in both good and bad times – and not to be addicted to the internet and doomscrolling. I deeply care about the children and their upbringing.
I can hold conversations in Arabic but I'm limited in my vocabulary to hold deep conversations or express deep feelings. That's why I want an Arabic-speaking wife – so she can teach me – and also our children so they become native Arabic speakers – something I wish I had as a child.
I really don't need much else, though it's already much in our times. I just want a warm-hearted and dedicated wife that I can start a family with, one that isn't hot-blooded and doesn't like to argue a lot or over little things.
Remember that not all things are written in stone and we can discuss and negotiate different things. Marriage requires adjustments from both sides and I realize this.
6. Moving out:
I always wanted to live in a Muslim country, though Gaza is now destroyed, which shattered my plans. I already tried to move out and in practice it's difficult, expensive and dangerous, especially considering the current situation in the Middle East. Therefore, for now I am staying in Poland where I know everything, it's safe, and can practice Islam with no major issues. If there is an opportunity to settle in a Muslim country and I can move my family there – I will in sha Allah. It's very important for me to raise our kids in a Muslim environment, but I also have a plan B (homeschooling + private teachers) here in Poland just in case I don't manage to.
While staying in Poland, I want to stay relatively close to my parents to fulfil my duty of taking care of them. I don't expect you to do anything for them and we will always have a separate space dedicated just for us wherever we are.
7. Epilogue
If you read till here: wow – but if you skipped: may Allah forgive you!! :)
Please contact me with your Wali info. I don't want any secret chatting and hiding.
