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M25165
20, ๐ธ๐ด Somali, ๐ฌ๐ง London, City of, United Kingdom
F20881
40, ๐ฌ๐ง British, ๐ฌ๐ง United Kingdom
M25159
21, ๐ธ๐ด Somali, ๐จ๐ฆ Canada
F20880
46, ๐ฌ๐พ Guyanese, ๐ฌ๐ง Bromley, United Kingdom
M25158
31, ๐ต๐ฐ Pakistani, ๐จ๐ฆ Quebec, Canada
F20878
22, ๐ฌ๐ฒ Gambian, ๐ฌ๐ฒ Gambia
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โ.ห๐ชปเผโ โข F19960
23, ๐ฎ๐ณ Indian + ๐ด๓ ง๓ ข๓ ณ๓ ฃ๓ ด๓ ฟ Scottish, Gauteng, South Africa
| 23 | Hanafi | Ahlul Sunnah wal jamah Fun facts about me: โข I love trying new foods โข Favourite fruit : Mango ๐ฅญ and Papaya โข Least favourite fruit : Coconut ๐ฅฅ โข Sweet tooth: chocolate, baklava, Burfi, tahini halvaโฆ basically anything sweet. ๐ซ โขI have a habit of randomly speaking in accentsโฆ you'll never know if youโll get British, French, or a Victorian lady ๐ โขCoffee Drinker : But only if itโs 50% chicory, donโt judge โ โขReader: I have a tower of books ๐ โขPets: Grew up with 10+ different animals as pets , Now itโs just Kiki , my tabbyโฆ ๐ฑ โขGoal: Learn to ice skate and not Crash-land โธ๏ธ ุงูุณูุงู ุนูููู ูุฑุญู ุฉ ุงููู ูุจุฑูุงุชู Every beautiful story begins with a single step. Iโm happy to share a few pages of mine with you, hoping our paths might lead toward a shared chapter of Sakinah, Insha'Allah ๐๐ชป I am a 23-year-old, 5th-generation Indian with Scottish ancestry( born and raised in south Africa). I am a student of the Hifdh of the Qur'an and Alimiyyah Studies , while concurrently completing a Bachelorโs degree in Aviation Management(online) โ๏ธ. I am multilingual, I speak four languages: English, Afrikaans, Arabic, and Turkish. ๐ฃ๏ธ As an individual, I am calm, nurturing and deeply caring and supportive with a personality that balances warmth with a sense of fun. ๐ I am known for my smile and a lighthearted nature. I am a firm believer that a strong marriage is built on a solid foundation in Deen, unwavering loyalty and deep trustworthiness. I value emotional intelligence and a soft heart, seeking a partnership rooted in mutual understanding, kindness and a nurturing love. ๐ฟ
F16173
18, ๐ต๐ฐ Pakistani, Punjฤb, Pakistan
โ ๏ธ PLEASE READ CAREFULLY BEFORE REQUESTING *Imp* I recently turned 26 in February (I'm unable to change it) I'm Introvert but lively and playful around the ones I am close with. Student of knowledge (Alimiyyah Student) , follow Hanafi fiqh based on Quran and sunnah. I do not consider myself perfect, but I am continuously striving to become a more practising Muslimah. I value spending quality time with my loved ones. I consider myself empathetic, caring and family oriented. Personality type: INFP โ๏ธ I'm based in Pakistan and open to relocate to a different country. Please reach out only if you are open to Pakistani residents and can visit here at least once during the inital process. โ๏ธ I am on a free plan so I'm unable to make or accept requests. Please be sincere in your niyyah before approaching, all other matters can be ุณฺพู by the will of Allah SWT afterwards. ุงูููู ูุง ุณูู ุฅูุง ู ุง ุฌุนูุชู ุณููุง ูุงูุช ุชุฌุนู ุงูุญุฒู ุฅุฐุง ุดุฆุช ุณููุง I am looking for someone who is kind, calm, respectful, humble, gentle with family, emotionally mature, able to provide, protect and maintain- not just financially, but also emotionally and spiritually, with whom I am able to communicate openly without any judgement, who can be my best friend. Moreover, I'm looking for someone who hasn't been in haram relationship, avoids all haram acts, stays away from drugs, smoking, vape etc. stuff, and doesn't free-mix or has female friends. I myself have stayed away from such haram things by tawfeeq of Allah SWT; so if someone is into these, simply just don't request. I am very strong on being faithful and honest with my partner; and I expect the same. Also, someone who observes the lowering of his gaze. If you have wandering eyes and can't discipline your nafs, we aren't a match. He shouldn't have anger issues and shouldn't be stingy. Someone who understands that tarbiyah of children is a mutual responsibility, and actively contributes towards it by seeking islamic education and improving his character, behaviour and values. I envision my marriage to be built on taqwa, muwaddah, rehmah,trust and mutual respect. I believe its a relationship which requires continuous efforts, mercy and forgiveness. I read somewhere marriage is a union of two forgivers. I pray Allah bless me with someone who will be coolness of my eyes and I'll be his In sha Allah. ๐ด Only serious requests ๐ด I'm looking to marry within 6 months after we match Bi Iznillah. I want simple nikkah followed by walima( segregated), not like cultural Pakistani weddings. ๐ดNot interested in POLYGYNOUS marriage.
F11322
23, ๐ต๐ฐ Pakistani, London, United Kingdom
โุงูุณูุงู ุนูููู Iโm a practising sister upon salafiyyah and strive to follow Quran and Sunnah to the best of my ability. Iโm looking for a spouse on the same wavelength, who can lead and inspire me. I hope to build a marriage based on humility and mutual respect, so we can both support each other to improve.
F19709
19, ๐น๐ฟ Tanzanian, Bexley, United Kingdom
I'm someone who has strong passion when it comes to seek Islamic knowledge so I would like someone with that same passion to grow with. I'm manhaj as salfiyyah with athari aqeedah and try my best to be a good practising sister even tho I'm not perfect Allahu allam.
F14171
18, ๐ต๐ฐ Pakistani, London, City of, United Kingdom
I am looking for a leader of a man only. I'm very feminine and ready to be a wife, I can adapt to whatever lifestyle he has given he is religious, strong and willing to do anything for his family. I know that my age might put people off but I am quite mature for my age and can talk to elders with respect so they do not feel as I am immature. Passion and drive mean everything to me but evidence of your ability to protect and provide will be important to my family. I come from a large family of different practicing levels. We (my parents and my siblings) are the most practicing among us. Some of my family are not muslims. My mother is English but my father is Pakistani which is why I selected Pakistani as my ethnicity due to the lineage being passed down by the father in Islaam. My mother's family are almost entirely Catholics. If you are going to look down on us or cast harsh judgement for my less practicing family members, please click away. If you cannot coexist with non-muslims even for the sake of getting to know my uncles or my grandparents (who all love me and are involved in my life directly), please click away to save us both time
F20856
23, ๐ฎ๐ฉ Indonesian, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Assalamuโalaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. Iโm someone who values a peaceful life, good character, and sincerity in relationships. I try to keep my life grounded in Islamic values and always aim to improve myself in deen and in everyday life. I enjoy simple things like cooking and baking, especially preparing food for the people I care about. It makes me happy to create a warm and comfortable environment at home. I also love traveling and exploring new places, experiencing different cultures, and seeing the beauty of Allahโs creation. I would describe myself as caring, calm, and family-oriented. I appreciate meaningful conversations, loyalty, and kindness. Iโm looking for someone who wants to build a genuine connection first โ a man who can also be my best friend. I believe friendship, understanding, and mutual respect are important foundations before marriage, so Iโm not in a rush and prefer things to develop naturally in a halal way. Also, if I nudge you, please feel free to message me first because I canโt send the first message here. May Allah guide us to what is best. JazakAllahu khayran for reading.
Hadia โข F20853
21, ๐ฆ๐บ Australian + ๐ต๐ฐ Pakistani, Victoria, Australia
-Disclaimer: I have mild autism which is barely noticeable (save for picky eating and slight social anxiety). I overcame a tumultuous childhood and thank Allah (SWT) for His deliverance. Judgemental potentials should avoid interacting!- I'm half-White maternally (no connection to my South Asian dad nor his culture). Alhamdulillah I've been described as "non-materialistic and non-impulsive", "great with kids", "shy at first but then incredibly funny", "patient, forgiving, empathetic", "goal-driven, resilient and brave", "affectionate while respecting your and others' boundaries".
F20870
23, ๐ง๐ฉ Bangladeshi + ๐ฌ๐ง British, Greater London, United Kingdom
* I am 23, not sure why it says 22* I am Bengali, 23, live in Central London, currently doing my Masterโs degree. I am a hijabi alhamdulillah and dress modestly. Islam plays a big role in my life and is at the forefront of everything I do so I am looking for someone similar to me inshaAllah.
F20858
19, ๐น๐ณ Tunisian, Sousse, Tunisia
I'm a very simple woman
M25058
27, ๐ฌ๐ง British, Newham, United Kingdom
ุจุณู ุงููู ุงูุฑุญู ู ุงูุฑุญูู ุงูุณูุงู ุนูููู ูุฑุญู ุฉ ุงููู ูุจุฑูุงุชู Gender: Male Height: 179 Age: 27 Build: Athletic/Slim Beard: Yes Born Muslim or Revert: Born Muslim Nationality: British Ethnicity: Mixed (South American, European, and Arab) Occupation: Civil Engineer Education: Bachelors Degree Languages spoken English and Arabic Do you pray 5xs a day? Yes Marital status: Never married Which country are you currently residing in? UK Which countries you would consider moving to? Saudi Arabia, UAE, or any other muslim country Brief description about myself: Easy-going, emotionally aware, and funny. Travels often and has been to over 15 countries. Likes to spend time with family in the UK and enjoys playing different sports. Deen: Practising Salafi that adheres to the five pillars. In terms of knowledge, I have completed several basic books in Fiqh, Aqeedah, and Arabic in the past, and I am currently studying Al Fiqh Al Muyasar at my local masjid I have plans to memorise more Quran and further my Islamic studies in the future in sha Allah. Scholars: Sh. Bin Baz, Albani, Fawzan, Abul Razzaq Badar Sheikh Muhammad Al Uthaymeen, Sheikh Muqbil Rahimahullah and all Salafy scholars etc My preference: What I'm Looking For: I'm seeking a partner who is compassionate, respectful, and recognises her role in a relationship as a wife, which is distinct from the role of her husband. I appreciate traditional values and would prefer someone with similar values to me. Preference Arab, Asian or mixed race open to others if there is compatibility. Age range 18-26 ุฌุฒุงู ุงููู ุฎูุฑุงู
M23711
22, ๐ต๐ฐ Pakistani, Wiltshire, United Kingdom
If my profile sparks your interest then feel free to message me I am originally from Reading, Berkshire but have moved to Salisbury for my job as a train conductor. I have been a hafiz of the Quran since the age of 17 and I regularly teach students the memorisation of the Quran on my days off. I have also had the blessing of leading Taraweeh and Eid prayers at the mosque. I would describe myself as charismatic, family-orientated, hard-working, adaptable and passionate about creating a stable, halal future insha Allah. Also I have been living independently since the age of 19, I have been living in Salisbury, Wiltshire for about a year, however insha Allah I'll be moving to Southampton soon, a town with a much bigger Islamic community and a lot more things to do! Bonus points if you're a Hafiz or Aalimah and you like to travel and play video games!
M0227
36, ๐ธ๐ด Somali, London, United Kingdom
I am of Somali ethnic origin, but was raised in the UK, London/Birmingham. I was previously married but it came to an end. I do not have any children. I was born in Kenya but was a year old when I went to the UK, London. I have been in London most of my life except for the years I spent in Birmingham (where I had finished an Islamic secondary school), Egypt, Saudi Arabia and the couple of holidays where I went back home, i.e. Somalia. I sought Islamic knowledge in those countries (including UK, London, Birmingham). I have been practising since a young age and all that is a blessing from Allฤh. ูุฐุง ู ู ูุถู ุฑุจู. I have memorised the Qur'ฤn, studied many subjects under many prestigious scholars and I am still in the path of seeking knowledge as ignorance still heavily envelops me. I speak Arabic, Somali and English fluently. I naturally love being orderly but also tend to ride the wave of spontaneity to spice up experiences and sweeten moments. My love language is acts of service and I am as much a giver in this as a receiver which leads me to forever being vigilant and attentive to the needs of others. I also find humour to be a good flavour in any relationship, but not everyone is skilled at delivering the best punchlines! I am also serious when seriousness summons. Having many nieces and nephews - may Allฤh protect them all - I have adapted to the ability of engaging with different age groups with great ease without my age taking away any fun, enjoyment, exploration or ecstasy. So if you see my age do not be quick to judge and give us making acquaintance a chance. I can promise that you are in for a surprise! :) What I would change about my character: 1 - Time management. I would like to be someone who can be more organised in my scheduling and establishing of tasks. I tend to be all over the place, wanting to do this and then that simultaneously which leads to somewhat of a chaotic mess. 2 - Social consciousness. I am an ambivert, so I have the combination of introversion, when it comes to social settings, and extroversion, in settings of personal comfort, like family, friends etc. My ambiversion has helped me be productive in my da'wah, Islamic education and has given me focus with my family but I do believe that I need to be a little bit more socially conscious. Characters I can't stand and cope with: Arrogance, lies, bad-temper, irreligiousness, indifference to Islam, disrespect and physical violence. Views on relocation (Hijrah): Absolutely necessary.
M12479
33, ๐ต๐ธ Palestinian, Virginia, United States
Aishah ุฑูุถููู ูฑูููู ุนูููููุง narrated that the Messenger of Allah ๏ทบ said: โMarriage is part of my Sunnah, and whoever does not follow my Sunnah has nothing to do with me...โ [Ibn Majah 1846; Graded Sahih by Sheikh al-Albani ุฑูุญูู ููู ูฑููู in Silsalat as-Sahiha 2383] โโโโ ุงูุณููููุงู ู ุนูููููููู ู ููุฑูุญูู ูุฉู ูฑูููููู ููุจูุฑููุงุชูู โโโโ My goal is to find a righteous Muslima to form a loving marriage where we strive together for al-Firdaws al-A'la, ุฅููู ุดูุงุกู ูฑููู. There's lots to consider in this process and matching through vague descriptions can lead to wasted time or other complications. This profile includes the answers to preliminary questions that potential spouses usually ask each other, so I hope that these details will help to attract a more compatible match, ุฅููู ุดูุงุกู ูฑููู. Each section contains important and relevant information, so I humbly ask you to read all the way through. It's best to pass on me if we have completely different viewpoints, but I welcome a healthy conversation (through your Wali) to clarify any slight differences we may have. I'm open to sisters residing in Muslim countries and those in the USA. Hijrah is the ultimate goal, ุฅููู ุดูุงุกู ูฑููู. - ๐ผ๐๐ค๐ช๐ฉ ๐๐ - โ Muslim following the Qur'an and Sunnah upon the methodology and understanding of the Salaf (pious predecessors from the first three generations of Islam) โ Palestinian, born in Jordan, and raised in Virginia โ Small family consisting of my father, mother, and one younger brother โ Fluent in English and improving in Arabic โ No physical or mental disabilities - ๐ผ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐๐ง๐๐ฃ๐๐ - โ 6'1" (185 cm), 180 lbs (81 kg) โ Light complexion with a full black beard โ Mesomorphic build with proportional features โ Body fat between 10-12% โ Thinning 6mm hair with a receding hairline (between 3-4 on the Norwood scale) โ No tattoos or piercings - ๐๐๐๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ก๐ - โ Selectively social valuing deeper connections with family & close friends โ Never been into partying, smoking, hookah, alcohol, drugs โ Abstaining from TV, movies, music, nasheed, video games, mixed gatherings, birthdays, non-Islamic holidays โ Limited use of social media (YouTube, Telegram, & WhatsApp) only for seeking knowledge and staying in touch with Muslim brothers โ Morning person who's most productive during the earlier hours of the day โ Naturally neat and organized without burdening myself or those around me โ Emphasis on self-care through health & fitness โ Homebody who enjoys simple pleasures โ Reserved lifestyle rooted in routine - if you would describe yourself as a traveler, extroverted, outgoing, or spontaneous, then I may not be the best match for you - ๐&๐ผ - ๐พ๐๐ ๐บ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ด๐๐๐๐? I'm open to meeting a potential spouse through the Muslim community in my area, but being limited to my locality feels restrictive. After relying on Allah ๏ทป, I believe that exploring an option like Sunnah Match is part of doing my due diligence to get married. It's tough to ignore all of the success stories, and there are many unique advantages to seeking a spouse online. ๐ฏ๐๐ ๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐? I picture a marriage full of compassion, empathy, mercy, and encouragement to be the best Muslims possible to enter al-Firdaws al-A'la together, ุฅููู ุดูุงุกู ูฑููู. The rights and responsibilities of the spouses should be directly derived from the Qur'an and Sunnah as opposed to cultural norms or arbitrary standards. The best relationship is one that always refers back to the Qur'an and Sunnah for guidance. โThe greatest thing which requires cooperation between the spouses is for the home to be established upon the religion. And both spouses must be concerned with the religion and righteousness and they must assist each other upon the religion. This will bring about ease to the mind and contentment to the heart and the utmost tranquility to the home. I swear by the One who has my soul in His Hand, nothing brings about tranquility in the home of the spouses greater than the tranquility which is brought about by the spouses cooperating upon the obedience of the Lord of all that exists. If the spouses cooperate upon the religion and establish remembrance of Allah in their home, then the life of the home will be a good stable life.โ -Sheikh Sulayman al-Ruhayli ุญูููุธููู ูฑููู [Rights of the Spouses | pg. 65] โIf a person says: What will make a man love his wife and vice versa? We say: Allah has clarified this in His statement: โAnd live with them honourablyโ [Qur'an 4:19] If every person lives with his wife honourably and vice versa, then love, a strong bond and a happy married life will be established.โ -Sheikh ibn Uthaymeen ุฑูุญูู ููู ูฑููู [Fataawa Nur 'Alad-Darb; 6/29] I'm looking forward to investing deeply in my wife's happiness to ensure that she feels nourished and appreciated, ุฅููู ุดูุงุกู ูฑููู. A healthy marriage is one where both spouses are eager to fulfill each other's rights while being relatively lenient and merciful in demanding their own rights. Issues arise when only one, or neither spouse believes in this method. Having realistic standards and expectations is important for the longevity of marriage. I'm seeking a Muslima who understands that even the healthiest marriages will inevitably go through difficult times, within the relationship and through external trials. The key to getting through those challenges is fearing Allah ๏ทป and frequently referring back to the Qur'an and Sunnah to prevent ourselves from committing oppression or injustice. If we aid each other in this approach, then each trial will strengthen our marriage and the love between us, ุฅููู ุดูุงุกู ูฑููู. ๐ซ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐? I pray all five compulsory prayers in congregation at the Masjid by the Will of Allah ๏ทป. I'm grateful to Allah ๏ทป for granting me the ability to do so, and I ask Him to preserve this blessing for me. Prayer should be prioritized when planning daily schedules, and I'm seeking a spouse who prays on time to naturally assist each other in worship, ุฅููู ุดูุงุกู ูฑููู. ๐ซ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐? Music is haram and I avoid it completely. Qur'an and music can't coexist in the heart; one will drive the other out. I fill my time with the Qur'an, Hadith, Islamic lectures, or books such as Kitab at-Tawhid, al-Aqidah al-Wasitiyyah, and others. ๐ซ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐? Yes, and I much prefer home-cooked food for health and cleanliness, ูฑููุญูู ูุฏู ููู. ๐ซ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ? Our Prophet ๏ทบ ordered us to trim the moustache closely and spare the beard. [Sahih Muslim 259b] My beard is mostly straight with some bends and curls so it looks shorter at face value. I try to keep a healthy beard by staying hydrated and using beard oil daily, ุจูุฅุฐููู ูฑููู. ๐ฏ๐๐ ๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐? โThis is a fine thesis and a beneficial treatise, inshaAllah, which I have compiled in order to make clear the clothing that is incumbent upon the Muslim woman to wear when she goes out of her house and the conditions that she must fulfil in order for her garb to be Islamic. In doing so, I have relied on the Qur'an and Sunnah, being guided also by the traditions and sayings of the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) and the Imams.โ -Sheikh al-Albani ุฑูุญูู ููู ูฑููู [The Dress Code for the Muslim Women in the Qur'an and the Sunnah | pg. 21] The Sheikh ุฑูุญูู ููู ูฑููู outlines the following conditions to illustrate that the proper Islamic attire for women should: 1) Cover all of the body 2) Not be an adornment in and of itself 3) Be thick and not transparent or see-through 4) Be loose, not tight, to avoid describing any part of the body 5) Not be perfumed 6) Not resemble the clothing of men 7) Not resemble the dress of disbelieving women 8) Not be a garment of fame and vanity Regarding the niqab, I follow the opinion that it is mandatory: โThe correct view as indicated by the evidence is that the woman's face is awrah which must be covered. It is the most tempting part of her body, because what people look at most is the face, so the face is the greatest awrah of a woman. This is in addition to the shar'i evidence which states that it is obligatory to cover the face.โ -Sheikh Saleh Alfawzan ุญูููุธููู ูฑููู [Fataawa al-Mar'ah al-Muslimah; 1/396, 397] โThe hijab prescribed in shari'ah means that a woman should cover everything that it is haram for her to show, i.e., she should cover that which it is obligatory for her to cover, first and foremost of which is the face, because it is the focus of temptation and desire. A woman is obliged to cover her face in front of anyone who is not her mahram (blood relative to whom marriage is permanently forbidden). From this we learn that the face is the most essential thing to be covered. There is evidence from the Book of Allah and the Sunnah of His Prophet ๏ทบ and the views of the Sahabah and the Imams and scholars of Islam, which indicates that women are obliged to cover all of their bodies in front of those who are not their mahrams.โ -Sheikh ibn Uthaymeen ุฑูุญูู ููู ูฑููู [Fataawa al-Mar'ah al-Muslimah; 1/ 391, 392] I'm seeking a spouse who follows the same opinion, and therefore, I don't find it appropriate for a sister to say that she'll wear the niqab after marriage, as obligations should be fulfilled in all stages of life. Looking for a woman who feels empowered by her modesty, appreciates the honor that Allah ๏ทป has placed on her beauty, and understands the wisdom behind His Commandment. โThere is no doubt that Islam came to give honor to the woman, guard her, protect her from the wolves of mankind, secure her rights, and raise her status.โ -Sheikh ibn Baz ุฑูุญูู ููู ูฑููู [Fataawa ibn Baz | v. 4 pg. 308] Other expressions of modesty that I seek in my spouse are a soft-spoken tone, shyness, and no pictures taken except for necessity (passport or other forms of identification). ๐พ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐? Beauty is subjective, so instead of forming an expectation around physical traits, I choose to focus on intangibles that are more universally attractive. I'm seeking a sister who makes a sincere and reasonable effort to take care of herself through nutrition, light exercise (at home), and skin care. I appreciate a feminine sister who likes to beautify herself and dress up (at home). I truly believe that any Muslima who takes these measures will be attractive in her husband's eyes, regardless of her genetics. Above all, it's important to note that the most beautiful adornment is good ุฃูุฎูููุงูโฉ and ุฃูุฏูุจโฉ. ๐พ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐? I don't have any friends or acquaintances of the opposite gender and I expect the same of my spouse. I only interact with women when it's absolutely necessary (like at work) and I maintain a business tone without being flirty or suggestive. I lower my gaze outside of the home in obedience to Allah ๏ทป in hopes of earning His Pleasure. When possible, I try to run errands during the early morning hours to reduce the chances of being around women. I don't follow any women online, nor do I befriend anyone who posts pictures of women or speaks about them in a lewd manner. ๐ฏ๐๐ ๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐? The following applies to pets in general, but I wanted to address cats specifically to politely explain why I would prefer not to have one in our home: Although cleaner than most animals, there's still a strong odor that emits from their litter box and a high possibility of najis (impurity) being found in other places of the home. Over time, the cost of a cat becomes difficult to justify, especially considering trips to the vet for shots or treating unexpected illnesses/injuries. These expenses can easily climb up to thousands of dollars, and that money is much better spent on my spouse, our children, or Muslims in need. The value of a cat diminishes greatly to those in relationships; things like affection, cuddling, gratitude, and playfulness are much better received through a loving spouse. ๐พ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐? Culture should never interfere with the Qur'an and the Sunnah. Things like music and mixed gatherings have no place in the life of a Muslim, but these things have become common in many cultures around the world. I'm seeking a spouse and future in-laws who maintain the halal aspects of culture while leaving off that which is displeasing to Allah ๏ทป. ๐พ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐? Polygyny is a right that Allah ๏ทป gave to men, and I yearn to be in a marriage where my spouse and I strive to fulfill each other's rights. Women are delicate, soft, and sensitive, all of which are from their most endearing qualities, but these attributes can easily lead to an unhealthy level of insecurity and possessiveness. Polygyny can be difficult on a woman's emotions, no doubt, but this is a test from Allah ๏ทป to see who will strive against their desires and submit fully to His Perfect Legislation. It's heartbreaking to see that many of our beloved sisters are failing this test miserably by opposing polygyny and adhering to western ideologies instead of following the way of the Salaf. โ13. Disapproving of polygyny. This is from the calamities presented by the enemies of the Islamic legislation, because the legislation of Islam allows polygyny. And whatever the legislation allows, we receive it with submission, compliance and acceptance. As for disapproving of the man taking two wives or more, this only comes from someone who is ignorant or those affected with the doubts thrown into their hearts by the leaders of desires through the various means of communication.โ -Sheikh Salih Al ash-Sheikh ุญูููุธููู ูฑููู [Clarifying Common Mistakes Widespread Among the Muslims | pg. 158] โThere are many benefits in plural marriage for the woman, as well as the man. However, the woman will perhaps turn a blind eye to them due to her desire, jealousy, and dislike for having a co-wife.โ -Sheikh ibn Baz ุฑูุญูู ููู ูฑููู [The Beauty of Plural Marriage | pg. 20] (a short read full of gems and a great resource for any sister looking to rid her heart of ill feelings towards polygyny) Giving up the right to polygyny normalizes oppression in the relationship and harms every aspect of the marriage. It sets a dangerous precedent where insecurities and emotions are prioritized over the rights of the spouses, which will inevitably lead to other rights being neglected. There are times in a relationship where a spouse may (temporarily) give up his or her rights as a form of kindness and mercy, which is completely different than allowing the rights in marriage to be dictated by insecurities and western influence. On the other hand, there are rules and conditions for polygyny that brothers should know to ensure fairness in this practice. It's important to be with a spouse who would support me if the opportunity presented itself, and therefore, ๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐๐ถ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐๐ต๐ผ ๐ถ๐ ๐ฎ๐ด๐ฎ๐ถ๐ป๐๐ ๐ฝ๐ผ๐น๐๐ด๐๐ป๐ ๐๐ต๐ผ๐๐น๐ฑ ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐๐ ๐ผ๐ป ๐บ๐ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ณ๐ถ๐น๐ฒ. I'm looking for that special sister with the best intangibles and the strongest desire to submit herself to Allah ๏ทป. ๐พ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐? I understand the natural inclination to marry within one's own race for the sake of familiarity, shared language, etc, but it's important to acknowledge that we're living in a difficult time. It's tough to find a righteous spouse these days, especially in the west, and adding racial restrictions to marriage doesn't make things any easier. I believe we should welcome interracial marriages now more than ever to protect our Ummah from fitna. I'm more than willing to work through the unique challenges of an interracial marriage for a righteous spouse, ุฅููู ุดูุงุกู ูฑููู. ๐พ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐? A simple Nikah at the Masjid and a small Walima in a private residence, ุฅููู ุดูุงุกู ูฑููู. ๐พ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐? I'm seeking a Muslima with a passion for homemaking who sees the value in her husband being a provider/qawwam (ูููููู ). I do not wish for my spouse to work, full or part-time. Maintaining the home is vital to a healthy relationship, and it carries a hefty reward for those with the right intentions, but some sisters are excessively spending hours a day indulging in hobbies such as cooking, growing plants, or home decor. I'm seeking a wife who fulfills her obligations as a homemaker while practicing moderation to utilize her time for other things that would be of greater benefit, such as memorizing Qur'an, seeking knowledge, or spending quality time together in our relationship. ๐พ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐? My motivation for marriage is to please Allah ๏ทป, and to find tranquility in you through your religious commitment, etiquette, manners, beauty, and the uniqueness of your personality. I'm seeking a woman with similar motivations as opposed to one who is rushing into marriage to avoid social pressure. My ideal wife is a sister who is constantly engaged in the remembrance of Allah ๏ทป through voluntary acts of worship beyond the obligations while actively seeking knowledge to live her life upon guidance. I value privacy in all aspects of life, so I'm seeking a spouse who won't overshare the details of our relationship. I'm not looking for a travel buddy, someone to try restaurants with, or an activities partner. People tend to define marriage by these things as if they're just looking for someone to enhance these experiences for them, as opposed to looking for a spouse. I'm searching for a Muslima with the same values who shares my vision and priorities. A woman who balances her worship between loving Allah ๏ทป, fearing His Punishment, and hoping in His Mercy. A woman who knows that this dunya is a testing place, not a resting place, and that this is not our home. I'm looking for a woman who wants to live a modest and peaceful life with me, and I can't wait to be a husband to that special Muslima, ุฅููู ุดูุงุกู ูฑููู.
M21886
19, ๐ง๐ฉ Bangladeshi, New York, United States
[REDACTED - Contact details removed] Alhamdulilah I am a brother who is 19 turning 20 soon inshallah. I am a brother who strives to be following the Quran and the sunnah according to the ways of the salaf. I command the good and forbid the evil alhamdulilah. I strive to be balanced in both my Deen and my dunya and never oppress anyone and fulfill my amaana (trust) whenever it is due alhamdulilah. I study in my local salafi masjid where I studied various books with my teach who is a student of many scholars such as sheikh Salih Al Fawzan, Sheikh Salih Al Luhaidan, sheikh Ali Al Hadadi, and the likes of them. I do not associate with spubs or mpubs or troid. I am striving to be a hafidh of the Quran and may Allah grant it for me ameen. I am also a active type of brother who plays various sports and tries to exercise when I get the chance. I am currently trying my best to eat more healthier to be fit for my future family alhamdulilah.
Ali โข M25133
28, ๐ฌ๐ท Greek + ๐ฎ๐น Italian, Wilayah Persekutuan (Kuala Lumpur), Malaysia
My Sheik called me a โconservativeโ Muslim, and I try to take Islam seriously and give others their rights / kindness and respect that I know I will be judged for I am based in KL, Malaysia I hold myself to high standards in religion / faith, how you treat others, finances, character, appearance and health, fitness, relationships and family, cleanliness (clean body, clean house etc), and I would appreciate the same from a wife InshAllah Currently not seeking Polygyny, seeking 1 wife InshAllah Back when I was a newer revert, I didnโt understand the differences between how people practice Islam and I didnโt realise how that may impact marriage. I actually thought, rather naively, that everyone who called themselves a โMuslimโ basically prayed 5 times a day and did all the Fard and also had great character. I chose to divorce in the past, after much patience, I felt like I had no choice and that it was the right call, was amicable and understandable. I didnโt feel religiously aligned or aligned in character with them, I hold myself to high standards that I would like to see reasonably reciprocated InshAllah. I donโt feel any part of that experience would impact my life moving forward, itโs part of my story now and I have dealt with it. If anything I expect what I learnt to benefit, and make life even better, cleaner and easier for my future spouse InshAllah, without her ever even having the feeling that I was divorced. I expect it to feel like a first marriage for both of us, InshAllah. I have learnt and put in the effort and time including with Sheik / Imam knowledge to aim to ensure a smooth and stable family environment in future InshAllah, and I hope my future wife InshAllah is a strong believer in Islam. I want to have a close family InshAllah, many children InshAllah (I have never had children), I want to live close together (ideally in big houses), spend time together, eat together, fast together, grow together, build a real community, a team, be accountable to each other & strengthen the Ummah, InshAllah.
M23730
28, ๐ต๐ฐ Pakistani + ๐ฎ๐ณ Indian, Birmingham, United Kingdom
Marriage profile Gender: Male Age: 28 Location: Birmingham, UK British Pakistani/Indian Education: Medicine MBBS Current occupation: Doctor Build: Slim average Height: 6ft Beard: Yes Madhab: Quran and Sunnah, No milads or khatams About: Calm, thoughtful, mature. Into masjid for salahs where able, walks, cardio exercise, reading a little, studying, spending time with close friends. Looking for: Hijab + loose fitted clothing that covers her awrah OR Niqab Manners and character are important Places islam central Educated Family focused Understands the islamic responsibilities and rights of both husband and wife, husband as the leader and wife as the nurturer of family and home, ultimately both also working as a team UK only If interested send a nudge or request
Abdullah ๐ฆ โข M22218
23, ๐ฐ๐ช Kenyan, Dublin, Ireland
Iโm a practicing Muslim who seeks knowledge (from AMAU), memorises the Qurโan daily, and has good character: Well mannered, respectful, and considerate. All thanks and praise be to Allah. People mostly describe me as a man who always has a smile on his face. I am very ambitious, hardworking, self disciplined, and Iโm serious about developing myself in all aspects of life. I have so many interests, including: Reading beneficial books, going on adventures, walks, hiking, exercising (Calisthenics) outside regularly at my local park, exploring the beautiful scenery of nature, prioritising natural whole foods in my diet, playing any sport, and eating (Iโm a foodie). Iโm also a cofounder of an Islamic company. I love business/entrepreneurship. I believe my role as a husband includes; To protect you, make you feel and be completely safe with me, fulfill all your rights, be considerate, generous, merciful, and patient with you. Also, to keep you upon the path of righteousness - with the help and permission of Allah (subhaanahu wa Taโala). Being easygoing and warm is part of my character. I will be a very romantic and affectionate husband, so I prefer a woman who can match that energy. My skin colour is brown.
Abdullah โข M4127
25, ๐ฒ๐ฝ Mexican, California, United States
Iโm looking for a wife that fears Allah and is mature and ready for marriage. I know it can be challenging for a revert man to find a family that will trust him with their daughter and I understand that but know that Iโve always tried to be the best Muslim I can be since day one. Not one time did I reject any belief that Islam commands upon us to please my own desires, whenever something new came to me I approached it with humbleness and accepted it. I consider myself a serious Muslim and I had to learn the little that I know as soon as possible while born Muslims had their entire lives to learn it as they were growing. I have a big family and none of them are Muslim but they all respect me so no need to worry about my family. Iโm open to answer any questions your family may have even if theyโre personal if they want to get to know me.
ุตุงูุญ โข M22723
26, ๐ฎ๐ช Irish, New South Wales, Australia
- I am a convert/revert to Islam as of three years ago Alhamdullilah. I am Sunni, and concerning my future family I intend to have a household based on the Qurโan and Sunnah. - My personality is quite laid back,ย but in terms of religious learning I assert myself as much as possible, I prefer to stay home and study instead of going out, and I try to make seeking knowledge my priority. - I like nature, reading, goings for runs/to the gym, and studying the religion & Arabic language. Being health conscious is important to me. - Iโm currently studying Bachelors of Education, my plan is to use my degree as a means of Hijrah, to protect my own religion and the religion of my future wife and children. What I need in my wife: - is feminine, simple, shy, wants to live a modest lifestyle striving for the Akhira rather than obsessing over the Dunya. - would like a strong relationship with her husband, would like children, and wants to be a stay at home mother rather than work, and is open to homeschooling our children. - Is interested in seeking Islamic knowledge, even if itโs only an occasional thing. - Alhamdulillah I havenโt had intimate relations with Women before, so I want my wife to be a virgin who has no history of haram relationships.